How to Choose Your Wedding Band

Choosing the right wedding band requires careful thought about several equally important questions, touching on the symbolism of the piece, its beauty, and the fact that it will be worn every day. We guide you here through the most essential considerations, to help you find the perfect ring.

Which metal should you choose for your wedding band?

As experts in jewellery and gemology, Bonnot Paris offers you several avenues to explore when choosing a wedding band. First of all, are you drawn to yellow gold, white gold or rose gold?

All are equally suited to women's and men's wedding bands, with yellow gold offering a more classic feel, though with the advantage of appearing less "cold". White gold, on the other hand, has an undeniable modernity and is very easy to wear.

Platinum wedding bands, which tend to appeal more to men, are less common owing to their higher cost. Silver bands, a more affordable metal, are considerably less durable.

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When it comes to metal, certain questions are unavoidable in the choice of wedding bands.

– Should you choose an engagement ring and a wedding band in the same metal colour? This is by no means essential. Some women prefer to match them, particularly when both are worn on the same finger, though mixing gold tones can create beautiful effects.

– Should the two wedding bands match in metal? There is absolutely no obligation to do so!

– Should you opt for 18-carat gold? Composed of 75% pure gold and 25% other alloys, 18-carat gold offers excellent durability for jewellery such as wedding bands, while displaying a beautiful brilliance and minimising the risk of allergic reactions.

– Can you choose rose gold wedding bands? While less commonly sought after, some women favour this gold. In recent years, it has also found its way into the creation of men's wedding bands.

The budget for wedding bands

The budget dedicated to purchasing your wedding bands depends primarily on the importance you place on these symbols of marriage, as well as on the possible inclusion of precious stones. Some couples also set their budget in relation to the cost of the engagement ring.

It is common to set a higher budget for the woman's wedding band, which tends to be more ornate, but this is by no means obligatory. Do not forget that some wedding bands are engraved, which represents an additional cost to factor into your budget.

We offer wedding bands set with precious stones that remain accessible, so that you can easily find elegant rings, such as our understated diamond wedding band.

Remember to order your wedding bands well in advance, in case any adjustments prove necessary. Two to three months is a comfortable lead time.

Choosing wedding bands that are comfortable for everyday wear

When it comes to choosing a wedding band, comfort must be kept in mind, with the correct size being an obvious first and crucial criterion. How easy it is to wear will depend on your daily activities — for some, this means work or leisure pursuits, sport in particular.

A wide wedding band may be less easy to wear all day, day after day. Thickness can also play a role, and finding the right balance is key to achieving a wedding band that is both comfortable and durable.

Bonnot Paris creates robust wedding bands built to last for decades, thanks to the finest materials and haute joaillerie craftsmanship. Discover our diamond, gold and platinum wedding band.

Let us take a closer look at the principal types of wedding ring.

– The court shape, curved on both the inner and outer surfaces, is often chosen for its comfort. It is a timeless classic that fits the finger perfectly. A domed wedding band can prove more pleasant to wear over long hours.

– The half-round shape, domed on the outside and flat on the inside, is a design that resists scratching well and strikes the right balance between comfort, elegance and durability.

– The flat or band shape, with its contemporary look, is favoured for men's wedding bands. It is highly customisable, though flat rings may scratch more easily than domed ones.

Should wedding bands be matching?

Traditionally, couples wear coordinated wedding bands. The rings complement one another, or share a similar aesthetic. Metals are often matched in colour. It is also possible to choose identical wedding bands, as a beautiful symbol of unity.

That said, many couples today are drawn to wedding bands that honour each partner's individual personality. Playing with subtle differences while remaining within the same style can yield wonderfully personal results.

Bonnot Paris offers bespoke gold wedding band creation, for those who love a perfectly harmonious duo.

Diamond wedding bands for women and other stones

You may choose a diamond wedding band, an increasingly popular option for women, though somewhat less so for men. The most sought-after styles are bands pavé-set with small diamonds on the half-turn. More affordable than a full-turn pavé setting, this stone-set ring is also easier to wear and to care for.

While these pieces are of remarkable elegance, they do require a little extra attention — though the key is simply knowing when to take your wedding band off!

Less common, wedding bands set with other stones are nonetheless greatly loved by certain women who wish to wear a radiant, colourful ring. Sapphire, ruby and emerald are the stones most often chosen for these bands.

We employ the finest setting and polishing techniques to ensure your wedding bands are truly beautiful, as durable as possible, and a pleasure to wear. Please do not hesitate to contact us with any specific request.