
What Is My Birthstone?

What is your birthstone?
Its origins can be traced back to the twelve stones of Aaron’s breastplate, described in the Book of Exodus and associated much later with the twelve months of the year. The modern list, meanwhile, dates from 1912 : an association of American jewellers then established an official correspondence. It has since been revised — tanzanite joined December in 2002, spinel joined August in 2016. This explains the variations still found from one source to another.
Here is the complete calendar, followed by the only thing truly useful to know before turning one into a piece of jewellery: not all of these stones can withstand being worn in the same way.
The calendar of the twelve months
| Month | Stone(s) | Symbolism |
|---|---|---|
| January | Garnet | Courage, loyalty, energy |
| February | Amethyst | Serenity, balance, creativity |
| March | Aquamarine, bloodstone | Hope, renewal, peace |
| April | Diamond | Strength, eternal love |
| May | Emerald | Honesty, wisdom, balance |
| June | Pearl, moonstone, alexandrite | Beauty, intuition, transformation |
| July | Ruby | Passion, courage, vitality |
| August | Peridot, spinel, sardonyx | Confidence, luck, serenity |
| September | The most worn Blue sapphire | Loyalty, wisdom, royalty |
| October | Opal, tourmaline | Self-confidence, love, creativity |
| November | Topaz, citrine | Joy, optimism, prosperity |
| December | Turquoise, zircon, tanzanite | Serenity, wisdom, protection |
June, August, October, November and December officially have two or three stones. This is not an approximation: it is the result of successive revisions to the list, often prompted by availability — natural pearl had become impossible to find, and opal too fragile for many uses. If you do not like your birthstone, look at another one: you have every right to.
The twelve stones in detail
- January · Garnet — An entire family rather than a single stone. The velvety reds, from burgundy to purple, come from almandine and pyrope, the most widespread varieties. spessartite garnet is rarer, and its red clearly leans towardsmandarin orange ; tsavorite, meanwhile, is distinctly green and among the most sought-after garnets.
- February · Amethyst — Violet quartz, from pale mauve to deep purple. Long valued as highly as ruby, until the discovery of Brazilian deposits in the 19th century caused its price to collapse. Serenity, balance, creativity.
- March · Aquamarine — Blue beryl, from translucent pale blue to turquoise reflections — from the same mineral family as emerald, but without its fractures. A symbol of hope and inner peace, and the stone of tin anniversaries.
- April · Diamond — The ultimate stone of commitment, and the star of diamond engagement rings. Icy transparencies, but also coloured diamonds — yellow, pink, blue, green — whose rarity is beyond compare.
- May · Emerald — From meadow green to forest green. Honesty, wisdom, balance. It is also the gem of emerald anniversaries, forty years of marriage. Our complete guide to emeralds details its criteria, which differ greatly from those of other gems.
- June · Pearl, moonstone, alexandrite — The best-endowed month, and the most delicate: pearl and moonstone are soft. Alexandrite, on the other hand, changes colour depending on the lighting — green in daylight, red in warm light — and has a hardness of 8.5. It is the only one of the three that can be worn without a second thought.
- July · Ruby — From carmine to blood red, and the highest price per carat of all coloured gemstones. Passion, courage, vitality. It is also the stone of ruby anniversaries, thirty-five years. See our ruby guide and ruby engagement rings.
- August · Peridot, spinel — Peridot glows in zesty greens, from olive to golden green. Added to the list in 2016, spinel exists in almost every colour and is found almost always natural and unheated — a rarity on the coloured-stone market.
- September · Blue sapphire — From midnight blue to royal blue. Tradition associates September with blue specifically, although the green sapphire is sometimes cited as an alternative. A symbol of fidelity, it is by far the most commonly worn coloured stone in engagement rings — see the blue sapphire engagement rings and the meaning of sapphire.
- October · Opal and tourmaline — Opal for its shifting fires, tourmaline for its range of colours, from soft pink to deep green, via blue and purple. Turquoise Paraíba is its rarest and most expensive variety.
- November · Topaz and citrine — Two yellows that are often confused, yet have nothing in common: topaz is an aluminium silicate, citrine a simple quartz. Joy, optimism, prosperity.
- December · Turquoise, zircon, tanzanite — Tanzanite, deep blue and sometimes violet, only joined the list in 2002. It has just one deposit in the world, in Tanzania, at the foot of Kilimanjaro — making it one of the rare gems of which one can reasonably say that it will eventually run out.
The zircon of December is a natural, ancient gemstone with remarkable brilliance. It has nothing to do with “zirconia” or cubic zirconium oxide, which is an inexpensive synthetic stone made to imitate diamond. The similarity between the two words perpetuates constant confusion, even among sellers.
Which ones can be worn every day, really
This is the only truly decisive information on this page, and no birthstone calendar provides it. Between June’s pearl and April’s diamond, the difference in durability is like that between a fingernail and a steel blade. Anyone giving a ring with their partner’s birthstone should know this beforehand, not afterwards.
| Verdict | Stones | Why |
|---|---|---|
| Worry-free everyday ring |
Diamond, sapphire, ruby, alexandrite, spinel | Hardness 8.5 to 10. And corundums — sapphire and ruby — have no cleavage planes : they withstand impacts. |
| With a little care | Aquamarine, tourmaline, garnet, amethyst, citrine, peridot | Hardness 6.5 to 8. Remove for gardening and housework, but perfectly suitable for everyday wear. |
| Emerald, apart | Emerald | Hardness 7.5 to 8 — therefore hard — but crossed by natural fractures that make it brittle. Never use ultrasound. |
| Real precautions better as a pendant |
Topaz, tanzanite, opal, turquoise, moonstone, zircon, pearl | Either soft (pearl 2.5–4.5 · turquoise 5–6 · opal 5.5–6.5), or possessing perfect cleavage which causes them to shatter upon impact — this is the case with topaz and tanzanite despite their respectable hardness. |
Hardness hardness measures resistance to scratching; toughness measures resistance to impact. Topaz scores 8 out of 10 — more than tourmaline — yet splits cleanly against the corner of a piece of furniture, because it has a perfect cleavage plane. A ring is knocked far more often than it is rubbed. Toughness is what matters, and it is what nobody looks at.
The practical consequence is simple: if the person’s birthstone is in the last row, it will make a magnificent pendant or pair of earrings, and a disappointing everyday ring. It is better to change the jewel than force the stone — or choose the month’s second stone, when there is one.
Have a jewel created with your birthstone
A bespoke-set birthstone has an advantage few jewels possess: it carries a date without needing an engraving. A garnet for January, an emerald for May, a sapphire for September — the jewel becomes a marker, and that is what makes it heirloom-worthy.
We work exclusively with coloured gemstones, sourced directly from our offices in Sri Lanka, where our team works on the market every day, as well as in Thailand and in Jaipur. Depending on the month, the calendar stone is therefore one of our specialities — September, July, May, January, August, October — or not at all: we offer neither pearls, opals nor turquoises.
If you are giving a birthstone jewel, do not choose the colour on a screen. A photographed garnet always appears more vivid than it really is; a tanzanite, more violet. And this is even truer of ruby, whose fluorescence simply cannot be photographed. Our guide to precious stones explains how to compare them, and bespoke creation details how a project unfolds.
What we are asked about birthstones
The blue sapphire — it is the colour that tradition specifically associates with September. A symbol of fidelity, and by far the most commonly worn coloured stone in engagement rings: its hardness of 9 out of 10 makes it one of the few coloured gemstones that can withstand daily wear without special care. See blue sapphire engagement rings.
Because the list has been revised. As natural pearls became impossible to find, moonstone and thenalexandritewere added to June. Tanzanite joined December in 2002, and spinel August in 2016. If you do not like your stone, you are entitled to choose another.
No, and the difference is enormous. Diamond, sapphire, ruby, alexandrite and spinel: no problem. Pearl, opal, turquoise, tanzanite and topaz: real precautions — either soft, or with a cleavage plane that makes them shatter when struck. For an everyday ring, you need to know this before buying.
No, and it is a common confusion. Zircon is an ancient natural gemstone with a beautiful brilliance. Cubic zirconia — cubic zirconium oxide — is an inexpensive synthetic stone created to imitate diamond. Two similar words, two unrelated things.
Of the twelve stones of Aaron’s breastplate in the Book of Exodus, associated much later with the twelve months. The modern list dates from 1912 and was established by an association of American jewellers — in other words, it is a commercial convention, not an age-old rule.
Of course, and it is common. Many of our clients arrive with their birthstone and leave with another colour, simply because it suits their complexion or hand better. A birthstone is a good starting point for a conversation, rarely an end point.
A stone, a date, a jewel that bears it
Share this post





